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Whatever has brought you here, I am happy that you made it and I hope you enjoy what you find!

Hello! I'm Pilar Valencia

Systemics Gestalt Coach

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Pilar Valencia Systemics Gestalt Coach

What my Clients Say

"I really enjoy talking to Pily. She has a very proactive approach. I call it 'The Pily way', it's like: "Ok, let's see what you've got and we're going to fix this", which is golden since I don't want to be more confused or worse than when I started and she always delivers! What I appreciate the most is the honesty, the capacity to deeply connect and the amazing gift of bringing everything to a point. I remember so many one-liners that are so deep, so spontaneous and so extremely on point, that no further words were needed. Change just happened."

Alexandra, M.Doctor

Romania

coaching

"Pily is a great coach! She helped me improve my life in so many ways! Now I think of different ways to deal with my problems and fears. She carefully listens, finds the root-cause, gives concrete solutions and actions. She immediately realizes what is important and what really matters to me and we work on that. She always finds the right words. I am much more open to the unexpected and try many new things. Like Pily says: 'Why not? Give it a try!'"

Stephan

Germany

coaching

"I've never met Pily in person but I've shared with her more than I have most other people. She's more than just a good listener, she's a good teacher. She shares her wisdom and a perspective without judgment, with tact and compassion. If you want a good chat and good advice from what feels like an age old friend I cannot suggest Pily enough."

Aiden

Australia

coaching

"She has so much experience! I just know she knows and has felt at some point in her life what I'm feeling right now. I feel it in the way she talks and asks questions that she understands me and wants the best for me. She has such a great energy! You can't help but being motivated after you talk to her!"

Mery

Malta

coaching

"I really like that she intensively listens, doesn't push what she thinks is right, but lets me discover myself what is right for me. It doesn't matter if it's for business or private situations. She understands and cares. She provides immediate help explaining and giving concrete suggestions of what can be done, but it's up to me to decide what to use. Great coaching sessions with concrete outcomes - that is very important for me!"

Ludwig, CFO

Germany

coaching

"To practice Transformational Dance with Pilar is a huge gift for me. She creates the session with the right level of a loving structure that lets me feel very secure, to trust my inner movements and to express them freely. This leads me to a feeling of liveliness, abundance and inner peace which I really enjoy. The possibility of doing it online is perfect for me, thank you so much."

Kathrin

Lubeck, Germany

Transformational Dance

"What a wonderful and surprising experience. Pilar accompanies you through the dance session so sensitively that you can fully immerse yourself in the music and your body. An absolutely relaxing and liberating experience!"

Katrin

Rosenheim, Germany

Transformational Dance

"I truly enjoy the online sessions, Pilar is wonderful and she manages to guide me perfectly...and I would guess the others as well... It's been historically hard for me to let go of all the tabs I keep open in my mind but slowly, through well chosen music and guidance I found myself ...not thinking...just feeling my body, actually feeling free and secure"

Alex

Allgau, Germany

Transformational Dance

"The self-defense course with Pilar was very intuitive, empathetic with a therapeutic perspective. Mindfulness, body awareness, strengthening of self-confidence were taught to deter potential perpetrators, but also various techniques for self-protection in emergencies were practiced. Thank you very much for that."

Edith

Schwaig b. Nuremberg, Germany

self-defense

"The seminar with Pilar was very varied, informative and took place in a relaxed, protected atmosphere. As a small group and through Pilar's empathetic nature and comprehensive approach, we were able to try out and practice many things such as mindfulness, body awareness, movement meditation, setting boundaries and much more... Keep it up!"

Evelyn

Schwaig b. Nuremberg, Germany

self-defense

"The course content is very practical and easy to implement. The instructor addresses each participant. The course is of very high quality. Thank you very much!"

Andrea

Schwaig b. Nuremberg, Germany

self-defense

"Pilar is a great trainer who addresses the participants and works very practically. I can only recommend the course to everyone."

Anja

Schwaig b. Nuremberg, Germany

self-defense