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Welcome to Systemic-Gestalt Transformational Coaching

Real Change. Real You.

Reconnect with your true self and unlock your potential.

Why You're Here

There's something inside you calling for change - a dream, a goal, a wish, or maybe a deep inner struggle.

Whatever it is, it's important. And that's where coaching can help.

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What You Might Be Facing

Low Self Esteem

Low self-esteem or self-image issues

Relationship Challenges

Relationship challenges or breakups

Emotional Patterns

Stress, anxiety, recurring emotional patterns

Feeling Stuck

Uncertainty, fear, or a sense of being stuck

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What you Might Want

  • To feel confident, whole, and self-aware
  • To live authentically and know your purpose
  • To create healthier relationships and boundaries
  • To reconnect with your dreams and find your true direction

Whatever you're facing, it's valid. Let's work through it together.

Start Here

Begin with a free 45 minute video call. We’ll explore your goals, explain the coaching process, and see if we’re a good match. No pressure, just connection.

My Coaching Style

As your coach and facilitator I work in helping you achieve your goals, in a way that brings real and long lasting transformation, and hopefully: joy.

My approach integrates several proven methods to support real transformation:

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  • Gestalt Therapy - Focuses on present-moment awareness and personal responsibility, helping individuals resolve and close emotional loops so they are no longer stuck or fragmented by unresolved issues.
  • Systemic Work - Uncovers hidden dynamics in family and relational systems.
  • Shadow Work - Explores unconscious and hidden parts of the self to uncover inner blocks and reclaim authenticity.
  • Embodiment - Brings awareness to the body to process and release emotions.
  • Movement - Uses physical expression to unlock stuck energy and support integration.
  • Meditation - Builds inner calm, clarity, and self-connection.
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Structure + Support

With a background in engineering and project management, I also help you bring clarity, structure, and action to your goals. From life planning to business strategy, we work both practically and intuitively.

What I Value

No one-size-fits-all plans. No false promises. No „magic“ programs. No fluff. Just grounded, personalized support rooted in real experience and integrity.

You are the expert of your life. My role is to help you access that truth again.

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Why It Works

Coaching works because it's centered on you ,your needs, your truth, your pace, and your transformation.

When we feel stuck or overwhelmed, it's often because we're too close to the issue to see it clearly. Coaching offers a safe, grounded space to slow down, reflect, and explore what's really going on beneath the surface-beyond the patterns, pain, or confusion.

As your coach, I bring clarity, compassion, and perspective. Together, we uncover root causes-not just symptoms-and gently work through the blocks and beliefs that are holding you back.

This is not about fixing you. It’s about reconnecting you with your inner truth, strength, and wisdom. We mobilize your inner resources, challenge outdated beliefs, and clear what no longer serves you.

From here, you begin to make choices that align with who you truly are. You rediscover confidence, rebuild trust in yourself, and step into a life that feels authentic, empowered, and whole.

Real transformation doesn’t come from quick fixes. It begins when you return to yourself and continues long after our sessions end.

Transformational Coaching - Real Change. Real You.

Session Format

Each coaching session is 2 hours long, allowing us enough time for real insight, release, and progress without rush.

What my Clients Say

"I really enjoy talking to Pily. She has a very proactive approach. I call it 'The Pily way', it's like: "Ok, let's see what you've got and we're going to fix this", which is golden since I don't want to be more confused or worse than when I started and she always delivers! What I appreciate the most is the honesty, the capacity to deeply connect and the amazing gift of bringing everything to a point. I remember so many one-liners that are so deep, so spontaneous and so extremely on point, that no further words were needed. Change just happened."

Alexandra, M.Doctor

Romania

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"Pily is a great coach! She helped me improve my life in so many ways! Now I think of different ways to deal with my problems and fears. She carefully listens, finds the root-cause, gives concrete solutions and actions. She immediately realizes what is important and what really matters to me and we work on that. She always finds the right words. I am much more open to the unexpected and try many new things. Like Pily says: 'Why not? Give it a try!'"

Stephan

Germany

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"I've never met Pily in person but I've shared with her more than I have most other people. She's more than just a good listener, she's a good teacher. She shares her wisdom and a perspective without judgment, with tact and compassion. If you want a good chat and good advice from what feels like an age old friend I cannot suggest Pily enough."

Aiden

Australia

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"She has so much experience! I just know she knows and has felt at some point in her life what I'm feeling right now. I feel it in the way she talks and asks questions that she understands me and wants the best for me. She has such a great energy! You can't help but being motivated after you talk to her!"

Mery

Malta

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"I really like that she intensively listens, doesn't push what she thinks is right, but lets me discover myself what is right for me. It doesn't matter if it's for business or private situations. She understands and cares. She provides immediate help explaining and giving concrete suggestions of what can be done, but it's up to me to decide what to use. Great coaching sessions with concrete outcomes - that is very important for me!"

Ludwig, CFO

Germany

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