About me

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My Journey: From Burnout to Being

I’m a rehabilitated overthinker and control freak. For most of my life, I trusted only logic, science, and the value of intelligence. I believed in doing what was “right,” constantly pushing myself to be better, stronger, more. And inevitably… I burned out.

It was a massive wake-up call. My whole world collapsed—despite all my efforts to hold it together. I tried to fix it the only way I knew how: by pushing harder. I researched, read, learned, tried new methods, and chased every possible solution. I was desperate for a reason, an answer, a cure that would “fix” me.

The upside? I learned and experienced a lot.

The downside? I got worse.

To break that cycle, I had to do something radical: change everything. I quit my job. I ended my marriage. I walked away from everything that gave me a false sense of security. I had to let go of my defense mechanisms and finally reconnect with something I had long ignored—my feelings, my inner world, my sensitivity.

It wasn’t easy. It still isn’t.

I’ve been working—still am—on healing trauma, letting go of limiting beliefs, releasing emotional blocks, and unlearning patterns that no longer serve me. I’ve had to reprioritize my energy, and stop taking on things that were never mine to carry.

And what I found was something unexpected: There’s immense power in the parts of me I once considered “irrational.”

brain pic depicting all my resources and habiilities

I learned to appreciate and embrace the full spectrum of who I am—including the soft, intuitive, emotional sides. I’ve come to know and accept myself, my body, my unique way of being—and I take better care of myself now than I ever did.

I discovered just how much wisdom, intelligence, and resilience lives inside me (and all of us), and I’ve learned to trust it—alongside my intuition.

These days, I live mostly in the present. Not caught in the past. Not trying to predict the future.

And it’s incredible how much more enjoyable, effortless, and natural life feels when I’m not trying to control or “get it right,” but instead let myself be surprised by what is.

I’ve attracted people who are truly good for me—who love and accept me for who I am, who see and value the real me. I’ve become more social, more open, more connected. I appreciate every person who crosses my path and the experience they gift me.

After a lot of inner work and soul-searching, I finally found my purpose:

To help people get to know, love, and trust themselves—so they can be authentic, present, and free to live the life they truly want.
Through a practical and holistic approach, I support the release of blockages, fears, and limiting patterns, creating space for real, lasting change. My work is both effective and deeply personal, empowering, and respectful of each person’s unique journey.

Of course, I still have my challenges—perfectionism, old habits, the occasional inner critic. But now, instead of beating myself up, I notice what’s happening, thank the experience for what it’s showing me, and respond in ways that are kind and useful.

And most importantly, I enjoy the path I’m on—every little twist and turn. Because to me, that’s what life is really about:

✨ Experience. Learn. Grow. Share. Release. ✨

Curriculum Vitae – Professional Education & Certifications

Coaching, Therapy & Facilitation

2024–Today Gestalt Therapist (IGE©, Rosenheim)
2023 Transformative Dance Facilitator (H.Fisher-Oren, Berlin)
2021–2022 Systemic-Gestalt Coach (IGE©, Rosenheim)
2020–2021 Certified Master Life Coach:
Professional Life Coach, Transformation Life Coach, NLP Practitioner, Happiness Coach, Goal Success Coach, Purpose Coach, Mindfulness Coach (Transformation Academy)
2019–2020 TEFL Teacher – Specialization in Online, Business & Children (ItoI)
2018 Access Bars© Practitioner (Hamburg)

Engineering

2006–2017 Specialist in Automation – SIEMENS, Germany
International Project Management, development, implementation and design of industrial machinery. Pre-Sales, VIP Support, Workshops and Fairs.
2004–2006 Master of Science in Automation and Robotics (FH-Weingarten)
2005 Intercultural Sensitation Training (FH-Weingarten)
2004 Process Engineer – BD, Mexico
1999–2003 Electronics Systems Engineer (ITESM, Mexico)

Further Experience in:

  • Gestalt Therapy
  • Systemic Constellations
  • Transformational Dance Therapy
  • Archetypes
  • Shadow Work
  • Imagery (Imagination Techniques)
  • Inner Child and inner parts
  • Somatics and Bio-Energy
  • Art, Dance, Ergo Therapies
  • Yoga
  • Reiki
  • Meditation: Zen, Qigong, Chakras, Sufi, Kundalini, and more

Further Interests/Experiences:

Mother, Wife – and divorcee, Camino de Santiago pilgrim, reading, hiking, swimming, climbing, dancing, writing, golf, surfing, SUP, SSI diver ...

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